The O.N.E. Protocol: My Simple Habit for Getting 1% Better
I've been thinking a lot about the power of compounding—the incredible results that come from making tiny, consistent improvements over time. The idea is simple, but putting it into practice can be tricky. How do you actually get 1% better every day?
1. O - Observe
2. N - Note
Observation: "My focus was off." -> Note: "Next time, I'll put my phone in the other room." Observation: "I felt anxious." -> Note: "Next time, I'll re-read my 'graceful no' script beforehand."
3. E - Execute / Evolve
The O.N.E. Protocol in Action: 10 Real-World Examples
It’s a simple, three-step feedback loop to drive marginal improvements in everything I do. The theory is great, but the real magic happens when you apply it. The core of the process is Step 2 ("Note"), where I ask myself one powerful question:
"What's the O.N.E. thing I can tweak?"
Area 1: Professional Life & Deep Work
Observe: I finished my two-hour work block, but I noticed I got distracted by a new idea and spent 15 minutes researching it, breaking my flow on the main project. Note: What's the O.N.E. thing I can tweak to protect my focus? I'll create a "distraction notepad." Execute: Next time, I will keep a physical notepad next to me. When a random idea or task pops into my head, I'll write it down immediately and return to my primary task.
Observe: I cleared my inbox, but I spent 20 minutes on one long, complicated email and felt rushed at the end. Note: What's the O.N.E. thing I can tweak to make this more efficient? I'll handle the quick emails first. Execute: Next time, I will scan my inbox and reply to everything that takes less than two minutes first. This will clear the deck and build momentum.
Observe: I made the call, but I felt flustered and rambled a bit when they asked a question I wasn't prepared for. Note: What's the O.N.E. thing I can tweak to be more confident? I'll prepare just one key question beforehand. Execute: Before my next call, I will spend just three minutes writing down the single most important question I want to ask. This will anchor the conversation.
Area 2: Health & Fitness
Observe: I did my workout, but I almost skipped it because I felt tired after work and lacked motivation. Note: What's the O.N.E. thing I can tweak to reduce the friction? I'll lay my workout clothes out the night before. Execute: Tonight, before bed, I will put my complete workout gear on the chair so it's the first thing I see.
Observe: I went to bed on time, but I lay awake for a while. I noticed the room was a little too warm and bright. Note: What's the O.N.E. thing I can tweak in my environment? I'll make the room darker and cooler. Execute: Tonight, I will lower the thermostat by one degree and put a t-shirt over my alarm clock's display.
Observe: I finished my run, but the last five minutes felt like a real struggle and I ended on a negative note. Note: What's the O.N.E. thing I can tweak to end on a high? I'll finish with a one-minute cool-down walk. Execute: Tomorrow, I will stop running at the 19-minute mark and walk the final minute home, focusing on my breathing.
Area 3: Family & Relationships
Observe: I walked in the door and was immediately talking about a work problem, bringing my stress into the house with me. Note: What's the O.N.E. thing I can tweak to create a better transition? I'll create a 2-minute "buffer" before I go inside. Execute: Tomorrow, I will park the car and sit in silence for just two minutes, take three deep breaths, and set an intention to be present before I open the front door.
Observe: During our chat, I noticed I interrupted her twice to finish her sentence because I was eager to make my point. Note: What's the O.N.E. thing I can tweak to be a better listener? I will pause for two seconds before I reply. Execute: In our next conversation, after she finishes speaking, I will consciously pause for a slow count of "one-two" before I begin my response.
Area 4: Mindfulness & Spiritual Practice
Observe: I sat for 15 minutes, but my mind was racing the whole time, and I felt like I "failed" because I couldn't stay focused. Note: What's the O.N.E. thing I can tweak in my mindset? I'll redefine the "win." The win isn't having no thoughts; it's gently returning my focus when I do. Execute: Tomorrow, every time I notice my mind has wandered, I will silently say the word "welcome" to myself and gently guide my attention back to my breath. I will count each return as a success.
Observe: I got a frustrating email and immediately typed out an angry, reactive reply. I caught myself before I hit send, but the stress was already there. Note: What's the O.N.E. thing I can tweak to create space between the trigger and my response? I'll implement a "one breath" rule. Execute: For the next frustrating email I receive, I will commit to taking one single, slow, deep breath before my fingers touch the keyboard.
See you improved!
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