Are you living in deception where '2 + 2 = 5'?

The champagne is gone, the confetti is swept away, and the glow of a new beginning fills the air. It’s the time of year for proclamations.

“This year, I will finally get in shape.”
“I’m going to meditate every single day.”
“I promise to stop procrastinating.”

We say them with conviction. We write them in new journals. We declare them to our friends and partners, making them witness to our commitment. It’s a ritual filled with hope and resolve. But have you ever stopped to ask a simple question: Why?

Why do we need the ceremony? Why does a true intention require a declaration?

Perhaps the very act of making a promise is an admission of disbelief.

The Unspoken Truth: The '2+2=4' Principle

Think about the fundamental truths of your life. If you identify as a man or a woman, do you wake up and take a daily vow to remain so? Do you announce to your family, "I promise that today, I will continue to be a woman"?

Of course not. The idea is absurd. You don't need to promise it because it's an integrated part of who you are. It’s an internal certainty.

Now, consider this: Have you ever made a solemn promise that for the rest of your life, you will believe that 2 + 2 = 4?

It sounds ridiculous. You don't promise to believe a fundamental truth. You simply know it. You accepted it as fact long ago, and your entire life operates accordingly without a shred of willpower or a single declaration. You don’t need your ego to "save" your belief in basic arithmetic.

This is the '2+2=4' State: A place where a belief or behavior is so deeply internalized that it requires no effort, willpower, or promise to sustain it. It’s not something you do; it's simply part of your reality.

The Deception: Living in a World Where '2+2=5'

So, what are we doing when we make those grand resolutions? We are trying to force a reality that our subconscious knows isn't true.

When deep down you don’t believe you’re the kind of person who wakes up at 5 AM, your promise—“I will wake up at 5 AM every day!”—isn't a statement of fact. It’s a desperate attempt to create one. You’re trying to convince yourself that 2 + 2 = 5.

And you build a fragile scaffolding around this lie to keep it from collapsing.

1. You Declare It to Invoke Your Ego. You post your goal on Instagram. You tell your friends. You make your partner your accountability buddy. Why? So that your fear of public failure becomes stronger than your private desire to hit the snooze button. Your ego is now on the hook. The goal is no longer about getting fit; it's about not being seen as a quitter.

2. You Repeat It Like a Mantra. You label your alarm "Conquer the Day!" you write "I am disciplined" on a sticky note. You are hoping that repetition will somehow bypass your disbelief and rewrite your internal code. But you’re not affirming a truth; you’re fighting one.

Imagine as a child you were taught that 2 + 2 = 3 and you promised everyone you’d believe it forever. Then, one day, a teacher proves to you, irrefutably, that the answer is 4. The truth is now clear. But your ego resists. You’re now in the business of defending your past promise, not operating from the present truth. This is the trap we set for ourselves.

Here is the Ego's Catch-22. 

You might think, "Simple! If I realize my promise was wrong, I'll just dissolve my ego and change my mind." And you would be right. A person who is not chained to their ego has no problem saying, "That promise I made was based on a flawed understanding. It's time to adapt."

But here lies the beautiful, frustrating paradox: If you are ready to dissolve your ego, you wouldn't have found the need for the public declaration in the first place.

The very insecurity that fuels the need for a loud promise is what makes the ego so rigid. A person secure enough to not need outside validation for their goals would begin their journey with quiet observation, not a public proclamation.

It's a tricky business—a delicate dance with the self—until you finally know that your 2 + 2 is 4.

The Alternative: The Path of Quiet Acceptance

If loud promises are a sign of disbelief, what is the path to real, lasting change? It’s not about more willpower or stricter rules. It's the opposite. It’s about being quiet.

• Instead of Loud Declaration, try Quiet Observation. Stop announcing your new identity and start observing your current one. Don’t declare, "I'm a healthy eater now!" Instead, quietly and non-judgmentally ask yourself, "Why did I just reach for that cookie? Was I bored? Stressed? Hungry?" Become a gentle scientist of your own behavior. Data, not drama, is the fuel for change.

• Instead of Willpower, try Slow Integration. Willpower is a finite resource that burns out. Integration is a gradual process that lasts. You don't go from believing 2+2=5 to knowing 2+2=4 in an instant. Maybe the first step isn't a two-hour gym session. Maybe it’s just putting on your workout clothes. The next day, it's driving to the gym and sitting in the parking lot. You are slowly, gently, replacing an old truth with a new one through action, not force.

• Instead of Ego, try Honest Acceptance. The most powerful step is to drop the fight. Accept the current reality without shame. "Okay, the truth is, I don't feel like I can do this right now. I don't believe I am a morning person." This honesty strips the ego of its power. By accepting that you currently believe 2+2=5, you stop wasting energy defending a lie and create the mental space to start learning that the answer is 4.

Conclusion: Do You Know It's 4?

This isn't to say all promises are hollow. Societal contracts, like wedding vows or an oath of office, are different. They are external agreements designed to provide structure and public trust.

But for the deep, personal transformation you truly crave, the rules are internal. The promises you shout the loudest are often built on the shakiest foundations. True change is quiet. It’s a subtle shift in your internal reality until one day, you look up and realize your behavior has changed without you even noticing. It has become a part of you.

So for that goal that truly matters, stop asking if you have the willpower to make a promise. Ask yourself a simpler, more honest question:

Deep down, do you know, with absolute certainty, that 2 + 2 = 4?

When you do, you won't need a promise. You'll just be.

Enlightenment, Liberation, and Moksha!

 Let's explore the concepts of Enlightenment, Liberation, and Moksha in the context of our previous discussion about consciousness and dis-identification.

These terms, while sometimes used interchangeably, carry nuanced meanings that reflect a profound shift in one's understanding of reality. They all point toward a state of freedom from suffering and a deep realization of one's true nature.

1. Enlightenment (Bodhi):

• Meaning:
  • "Enlightenment" often refers to a sudden or gradual awakening to the true nature of reality. It's the realization that one is not the limited self (ego, mind, body), but rather the infinite, unchanging consciousness.
  • It's a moment of clarity where the illusions that have clouded perception dissolve, revealing the underlying unity of all things.
  • In Buddhist traditions, it's often associated with the "Bodhi" or awakening of the Buddha.
• Connection to our discussion:
  • Enlightenment is the direct experience of the shift we've been describing. It's the moment when the mind fully recognizes itself as being aware of consciousness, and not the other way around.
  • It's the realization that you are the "seer," not the "seen."
  • It is the experience of the light itself, not just the objects that the light illuminates.
• Examples:
  • A sudden, profound realization during meditation.
  • A gradual unfolding of understanding through self-inquiry and contemplation.
  • A moment of deep clarity in everyday life, where the illusion of separation dissolves.

2. Liberation (Jivanmukti):

• Meaning:
  • "Liberation" (often "Jivanmukti" in Hindu traditions) implies freedom from the cycle of suffering and rebirth while still living in the body.
  • It's the state of being free from the bondage of desires, attachments, and ignorance, even while experiencing the world.
  • It's not about escaping the world, but about living within it with a deep sense of peace and freedom.
• Connection to our discussion:
  • Liberation is the ongoing process of living from the perspective of consciousness, rather than the ego.
  • It's the ability to dis-identify with thoughts and emotions, to experience them without being controlled by them.
  • It's living with a sense of detachment, while still engaging fully with life.
  • It is the ability to swim freely in the ocean of life, without fear of drowning.
• Examples:
  • Living with equanimity in the face of both joy and sorrow.
  • Acting with compassion and wisdom, without being driven by selfish desires.
  • Maintaining inner peace amidst the chaos of daily life.

3. Moksha (Mukti):

• Meaning:
  • "Moksha" (or "Mukti") is the ultimate liberation from the cycle of rebirth and suffering. It's the complete merging of the individual self with the ultimate reality.
  • It's the transcendence of all limitations, the realization of one's true nature as pure consciousness.
  • It is the end of the illusion of separation.
• Connection to our discussion:
  • Moksha is the culmination of the process of dis-identification. It's the complete and irreversible realization of one's true nature as consciousness.
  • It's the state of being free from all traces of ego and identification with the limited self.
  • It's the merging of the wave back into the ocean.
• Examples:
  • The complete cessation of the sense of "I-ness" as a separate entity.
  • The experience of pure, undifferentiated consciousness.
  • The state of perfect peace and bliss.

In summary:

• Enlightenment is the initial awakening.
• Liberation is the ongoing process of living from that awakened perspective.
• Moksha is the ultimate culmination of that process.

These concepts all point toward the same fundamental truth: that our true nature is pure consciousness, and that freedom from suffering is found in recognizing and living from that truth.