A Message That Made My Day

Today, I received a message from a friend.

"Happy valentine's day my bestest friend ever "

At first, it may feel like just a simple greeting, but there is something deep in this message, soon I realized what truly made it special. It wasn’t the "Happy Valentine’s Day" part—it was the second half of the message: "my bestest friend ever."

That’s what made me feel lucky.

I am fortunate to have friends with whom I can be completely myself—no pretense, no filters. They are my pillars, always there, unwavering in their support. With them, I can share anything without hesitation.

The occasion doesn’t really matter. This message could have been sent on Diwali, Friendship Day, or just any random Tuesday. What matters is the bond—the connection that makes someone feel, "You’re my best friend ever."

And today, one of those friends reminded me of that.

And that, to me, is something truly worth celebrating.

Parenting is hard for good parents. Marriage is hard for good partners.

 Parenting is hard for good parents. Marriage is hard for good partners.

Good parents are the ones who show up when it’s messy and exhausting. They sit on the floor playing the same game for the hundredth time because their child’s laughter is worth it. They hold tiny hands through first steps, first mistakes, and first heartbreaks, even when their own hearts are heavy. They stay up late worrying about the future, questioning if they’re doing enough, but still wake up every morning determined to do their best again.

Good partners are the ones who choose love even on the hard days. They listen when they feel misunderstood, give when they feel drained, and fight for the relationship when it feels easier to walk away. They support dreams, celebrate small victories, and forgive because they know love isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being present.

The truth is, doing the right thing is hard. It's late nights and early mornings. It's fighting battles no one sees and still showing up because you believe in the people you love. It’s giving a part of yourself every day, even when you’re unsure if it’s enough.

But here’s the thing: It is enough. Every tear you wipe, every hug you give, every word of encouragement—these moments matter. They leave a mark, even if the results aren’t visible right away.

If today feels heavy, remember this: You’re building something beautiful. A child who feels safe. A partner who feels loved. A family that thrives because of your effort and care.

💬 What’s a moment in parenting or partnership that reminded you why you show up every day? Was it a quiet “thank you,” a heartfelt hug, or the way they smiled at you like you’re their whole world? Share your story in the comments—it might inspire someone else to keep going